How Do I Call Love Into My Life? A Two-Step Spell for Pure and Innocent Love

In this post:

• Why love is harder than the movies make it look, whether you are single or in a relationship
• A two-step embodied spiritual practice to clear what is blocking love and call in something new
• How to use fire, intention, and a simple rhyme to release what no longer serves you
• How to work with Tarot or Oracle cards to co-create a personal ritual with mystery
• Why this spell works for more than just romantic love, and how to adapt it for anything you want to invite in

Spring is here. The sun is out. And love, as always, is on everyone's mind. Not the movie version. The real one.

Dating is hard. Finding love is hard. Being in love is hard. Anyone who has read Bridget Jones knows that navigating matters of the heart was just as bewildering in 1997 as it is now, and we have a lot more apps to confuse us with these days.

If you are feeling lost and disconnected in love, or wondering how to trust yourself again in relationship, you are not alone and you are not broken. What the movies tend to skip is the part that comes after the falling. The maintenance. The slow, unglamorous work of staying open to love, whether that means finding it for the first time, or finding your way back to it in a relationship that has lost some of its shine.

Today we are sharing something practical. A magic spell that Pipaluk developed. One that helped invite in the love of her life.

Before We Begin

This spell works whether you are single and looking for love, or in a relationship and wanting to tend to what is already there. It works in two parts, and you can spread them over a couple of days if you like. Take your time with it.

And a note before we dive in: this is not a spell for a specific person, or for a relationship that looks a certain way. The intention at the heart of this is simpler and more powerful than that.

Pure and innocent love.

What that looks like is up to the mystery to decide.

Step One: Clear the Ground

Every garden needs weeding before you plant. This first step is the clearing.

You will need a fireproof container, a cauldron if you have one, a deep pot or metal bowl if you do not. Place a candle inside it. Green is a beautiful choice for this time of year, with its energy of growth and becoming. Red or black carry a clearing, space-making quality. And if you have none of these, use white. White substitutes every color and carries the intention you place in it. The most important ingredient is never the candle. It is always you.

Do not light the candle yet.

Take nine sheets of paper plus one extra sheet for writing your draft. Simple, cheap printing paper burns best. On the first sheet, write down what you want to clear. If you are in a relationship, this might be bitterness, assumptions, a habit of expecting the worst. If you are single, it might be old stories about who you are in love, or a belief that it is not coming for you.

Write it plainly first, then, if you feel called to, turn it into a simple rhyme. Rhyme reaches deeper into the subconscious than prose. It does not need to be good poetry. It just needs to be honest. Something like:

I remove the bitter because I want to feel better. I place it here upon this letter. Now is the time. I call love into my life without strife.

Write this nine times, once on each sheet of paper. Then light the candle.

Hold each sheet over the flame, let it catch, and drop it into the cauldron. Read or chant your words as you go. Keep going until all nine sheets have burned. Let the wax melt, the fire go out naturally, then wrap everything up and throw it away.

This is somatic witchcraft in its most ancient form. The body is involved. The breath, the heat, the repetition. Your nervous system registers the clearing not just as a thought, but as a felt, physical event. That is what makes it an experience that has a deep effect on all parts of your being.

Step Two: Plant the Seed

For this part you will need a Tarot or Oracle deck. Choose one with recognizable, everyday images on the cards: trees, flowers, cups, figures, animals. Something abstract will not serve you here. You want images that spark an immediate response.

Hold your intention clearly: I call pure and innocent love into my life.

Shuffle the cards with your full attention on this intention. If your mind wanders, start again. When you feel ready, draw three cards.

Look at each card and find one image or symbol that calls to you. One from each card. These three things, in the order you drew them, become the raw material of your spell.

Now you build it.

Say you drew a tree, a flower, and a card with the number seven on it. Your spell might be: for seven days, bring a flower to a particular tree as an offering. Or perhaps the cards give you something entirely different and something else entirely comes to mind. Trust that. The spell writes itself through you, not by you.

What matters is that the actions are physical. That they involve movement, objects, places, offerings. That they carry your intention for pure and innocent love throughout. And that you hold that intention with real focus each time you carry them out.

This is body-based spiritual practice at its most effective. Not just visualization. Not just journaling. Actual movement through the world, guided by mystery, in service of what you are calling in.

The Final Step: Pay Attention

When the ritual is complete, write down what you did and what you intended. Keep it somewhere you will find it.

Then, a year and a day from now, set a reminder in your calendar. Just a note: I cast a spell for pure and innocent love. When it surfaces, look back. Notice what arrived. Notice what shifted.

Miraculous things can happen quickly. And some things take longer. Both are valid. Both are the spell working.

A Note on Why This Works

Magic, at its heart, is the practice of stepping into uncertainty on purpose. Most of what we spend our energy on in daily life is reducing uncertainty, controlling outcomes, managing risk. Spell work does the opposite. It asks you to enter the unknown with full trust, to co-create with mystery rather than trying to manage it.

This is also what shamanic practice knows. The state of oneness, of deep trance and open presence, is a state where nothing is fixed. This is the place where new patterns can form. It is ancient wisdom for modern life, and it is as relevant now as it has ever been.

This Works for More Than Love

If you are feeling inspired, know that this process can be adapted for anything you want to invite in or clear away. Starting a new habit. Waking up in the morning and actually wanting to get out of bed. Finding your direction. Whatever the clearing and calling is for, the steps are the same.

Clear first. Then plant. Then tend.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is embodied spiritual healing? Embodied spiritual healing works on the understanding that transformation does not happen in the mind alone. It happens in the body: through breath, movement, sensation, and physical ritual. When we burn paper, chant words, and move through the world carrying an intention, we are working with the whole self, not just our thoughts. This is what makes somatic spiritual practices so effective where purely mental approaches fall short.

How do I use rituals to feel more grounded? Ritual works by giving the nervous system a clear, embodied sequence to follow. The repetition, the physical objects, the intention held throughout: all of this sends a signal to your body that something real is happening and shifting. You do not have to believe perfectly. You just have to show up and do the steps.

How do I reconnect with myself spiritually? Often the first step is clearing what has built up. Old stories, bitterness, patterns that once protected you but no longer serve. The burning ritual in this post is one way to begin. Once the ground is clearer, it becomes easier to hear what you actually want and to move toward it with focus and trust.

How do I combine shamanism with modern life? Shamanic and witchcraft practices do not require a forest or an altar or hours of preparation. They require intention, a willingness to enter the unknown, and some basic materials you likely already have. A candle, a fireproof bowl, a deck of cards, nine sheets of paper. The ancient practices are portable. They always have been.

Ready to Go Deeper?

If this resonated and you are curious what a real, supported spiritual practice of somatic and magical transformation could look like for you, Magic is Key is a trauma-informed online school of effective spiritual practices that combines shamanic witchcraft, somatic healing, and sacred seasonal wisdom.

It starts with a free 15-minute Compass Call with Pipaluk, Firebrand Priestess and trauma-informed spiritual teacher. Not a sales call. A space to be witnessed, to check in, and to feel together whether this is the right next step on your path.

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With love, Pipaluk and Serafina